I don't have to be scared anymore that you will get mad at me and strike me or headbutt me or do something that breaks some part of me...nose, arm, etc. Now your girlfriend can feel the brunt of your anger... Added:12/2/2008

i just have to add that the person who wrote about their ex leaving shit stains on the side of the toilet, i laughed so much it hurt, your senseof humour is right on, please whats ur name on this? i'd love to read your postings..... Added:11/27/2008

I don't have to go to sleep every night with tears in my eyes, i don't have to waste my time staring at the phone waiting for you to call, i don't have to watch you look at your friends more than you look at me, i don't have to wonder if your gay. Because now I know you are and i can finally move on... Added:11/24/2008

i know you think that people love you now just coz you were on the xfactor- but face it you are a hasbeen and everyone will get bored of you- they obviously dont know the real you that has a wonky eye without his contacts in and the austin that leaves shit stains on the side of the toilet- yuk i dont miss you atall- you will be very lonely and someone will abandon you one day! Added:11/22/2008

I don't have to worry what shit you are talking about me. Added:11/5/2008

I can sleep as late as I want. Added:11/5/2008

I can look at any pretty girl I want to. Added:11/5/2008

I can drink as much as I want. Added:11/5/2008

I don't have to wonder if you are going to be mad at me anymore. Added:11/5/2008

I don't have to wonder what and who you are texting Added:11/5/2008

I don't have to entertain you. Added:11/5/2008

I don't have to try hard to make you happy. Added:11/5/2008

I don't have to share your time with your mother. Added:11/5/2008

I don't have to wonder why you don't want to spend time with me any more. Added:11/5/2008

i will be better off because   i dont have to wonder who your texting anymore   i dont have to wonder why you would be willing to take your son anywhere or go away yourself but never take me   i dont have to be involved in your soap opera world anymore   i dont have to ever wonder if your really working all those hours   i dont have to be dissapointed by broken promises   i dont have to clean up your shit anymore   i dont have to wonder why you have so many women friends   i dont have to put up with everyone else controlling your live   i dont have to listen to your child wine over everything..especially when he doesnt get his own way   i dont have to be dissapointed because everything is around your child and you chose him over me for every single thing even breaking up with me because of him Added:10/29/2008

I don't have to sit around and wait for your phone calls Wonder if you "feel" like seeing me today eventhough i waited all day to see you and planned my schedule to see you Deal with the you are perfect lecture but not for me because we are at different points in our lives Deal with you taking longer to get ready than myself Worry about checking your messages/emails because i felt like i couldn't trust you I don't have to hang out with your dead beat disrespectful friends Deal with you randomly leaving to go on vacation and you never inviting me Not having to deal with you not having an intellectual thought ever Tired of putting my stuff on hold just for you when you need me hardly do it for me You totally disrespecting me by looking at other girls when all your friends and yourself think that i'm the prettiest girl in the room and even admitting they were ugly Listening to your bitching and complaining and you not taking initiative to fix any problems You not being able to commit to anything Making stupid jokes about me that were not funny to anyone except yourself I get to focus 100% on school now and do something better for myself for my future You being so negative about everything, everyone, every place I do not have to deal with you calling our relationship boring when you were the one that couldn't carry on a conversation I'm better of without you because i'm moving forward with my life and you my dear are just standing still Added:10/28/2008

I'm better of because....you were only using me.   because you don't deserve someone like me.   because everyone says so.   because...I don't know why anymore.  Added:10/12/2008

You are... a liar a cheat a thief Added:9/17/2008

I am Better Off Because   You can't be faithful to anyone.   I will never have to wonder what sneaky things you are up to...it's now her problem.   You can't hurt me anymore, lie to me anymore, use me anymore, or treat me as your option anymore.   I want a man who doesn't live with his parents.   I want a man who doesn't change who he is to please others and fit in with others and likes the person he is instead of wears a mask.   You can't break my heart anymore.   You can't cheat on me anymore.   You can't make me feel like I am not good enough anymore.   You can't disrespect me anymore.   I am better off because you only bring pain and I am tired of pain.  Added:9/14/2008

because I don't have to gel my hair everytime I see you because now I don't have to feel unappreciated anymore because nowI won't have anyone telling me I don't look handsome when I don't dress up nice because I don't have to walk on egg shells anymore around you because no one will tell me that I'm not special because you're not there to tell me that baseball is a stupid sport because someone will understand that playing ball is something I've been in love with since I was 4 because someone won't care what I act like so their friends will accept me because now I don't have to wonder why you never texted back because someone will never fall out of love with me some day Added:9/10/2008

I get the bed to myself Added:9/7/2008

* I won't have to deal with you bolting whenever things get intense * Because I won't have to put up with your procrastination *or your excuses * I won't have to deal with your insane and enmeshed relationship with your mother * I won't have to deal with passive aggressiveness * I won't have to clean up your mess like I am your mother * I won't have to wonder what you are sneaking around doing * I won't have to feel like I am 'the problem" * I won't have to be "the angry bitch" * I will begin to make friends and to build a life in this country you brought me to, but have not helped one bit to make a home * I will not have to be the person who takes the initiative for everything * I will not have to watch your downward spiral for drinking and will continue forward with my own sobriety * I will not have to be with someone who does not wish to find insight or make changes * I will be better able to continue forward with my own insights and to make the changes I need to make * I will not be so perpetually anxious * I will not have to live my life through a computer game in order to 'connect' with you * my kids and I will have more peace * I value the wonderful opportunity you provided for me to address my own issues - you were the perfect catalyst to dredge up the issues I need to deal with - I just don't need the trigger sleeping next to me in my bed* Added:8/31/2008

I am a better mom when I can spend my energy on my kids and taking care of them.... I am more financially stable...the bills n rent are always on time My kids n I are living healthier lifestyles... I do things I've always wanted to do, wanted to try I look good because I can buy myself nice clothes n stuff I can have my family n friends visiting me at my house My house is always clean There is always food in the fridge and cupboards My mind is free from worries about you I can have good times with my friends...girls nite out! I don't have to be controlled by anyone I don't have to answer the phone if I don't want to I excercise, diet, do good things for ME! I started 2 new businesses It's a whole new life! I don't have drugs or alcohol ruining my life I control the remote ;) Added:8/24/2008

i never have to worry about when your going to abandon me again Added:8/23/2008

I AM BETTER OFF:   because I no longer have to walk on egg shells for you. because I can have my hair theway I want it. because you wont force me to eat everything on my plate just because you are paying for dinner because I wont get shoved into walls because you think im cheating on you because I can be a loud as I want without you telling me to shut up or calm down because I know that I am not a whore, or a slut, just because ive slept with more people then you because I deserve to have a girls night out, and not get a million text messages or phone calls because you said if I ever got my Doctorate Degree, you would leave me, because im not allowed to look smarter then you because I dont have to convince you the sex felt good for me, because your so sure ive had bigger and better because I finally dont have to wonder if this engagement ring ment something, because I know now it didnt because you were never a friend for me because everytime you hit me, when I bring it up later, you would say "i dont know what your talking about" because you know damn well you will never find a girl who will cook as good as me, and ill find someone who appreciates it because I no longer have to worry, if today, your going to get upset or mad at me I dont have to stop what im doing to call and wake you up. You have an alarm clock. use it. because you dont have respect for women in general, not even your mother, who you make cry all the time because you wouldnt get back on the lithium for your bi-polar disorder that you deny to have because sending me a letter shouldnt be a hassle, you should want to show me you care because I will not live a double standard to where you can do whatever you want and I have to sit at home If im sad about something and crying, you wont mock/make fun of me I dont need to ask your permission to buy anything I dont get accused at staring at other guys, when I never did, my eyes where always on you, I knew better, and didnt want to be hurt by you Now I can move anywhere I want, and I dont have to wait for you to get out of the military I dont have to play it off like "oh yes, he's changed, we are so happy and he is so good to me" BECAUSE THAT WAS A LIE I dont have to worry about your brother hating me I dont have to worry about you breaking up with me for some fat bitch who will spread her legs for a beer and a cheeseburger I dont have to stress out about finding YOU a job, because your too incompitent to write your own fucking resume I dont have to wonder how your life will turn out, i already know, because you will always take the easy way out about the only thing your good at is saving money, only so you can feel like your better then everyone, we both know you will stay in the military, live in your moms house when you get out, and use that money to buy a nice car so you can pick up high school chicks who dont know any better i dont have to say I love you anymore, three words that felt so empty and meaningless I CAN BE THE WONDERFUL PERSON I KNOW I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!       Added:8/7/2008